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84 responses so far ↓
1 Weldon Adams // May 20, 2008 at 11:27 am
Godspeed Rory.
It’s the 2nd star from the right and straight on till morning.
But then, you know the way already…
2 Anna Warren // May 20, 2008 at 11:58 am
Rory and I became friends when I was trying to get my comics that I publish into stores. When I became a retailer, last year, he made himself my mentor, much to my good fortune. He would call me often and teach me a great deal. He cared and that meant a tremendous amount.
He was kind enough to let me dote on him at conventions and conferences to I could make sure he was ok.
I miss him very much.
3 David Shultz // May 20, 2008 at 12:11 pm
You are sorely missed, and will live well in our memories.
4 Sam Boswell // May 20, 2008 at 12:19 pm
Thanks for the sundaes and books, Rory…you’ll be missed.
5 Dan Shahin // May 20, 2008 at 12:33 pm
Rory,
You were the best thing that ever happened to the business of comic books. I’ll miss you forever.
6 Paul Pot // May 20, 2008 at 1:38 pm
Rory,
Thanks for the greatest store on earth. You will be missed.
7 John Munn // May 20, 2008 at 1:40 pm
May angels speed you to your rest, kind sir.
Our retailing family has last a mentor, an inspiration and, above all, a friend.
8 Amy Thomas // May 20, 2008 at 1:56 pm
Dear Rory, thank you for the great heart and idea farm that y0u were. I loved working with you and I miss you already.
9 Andrew Boyko // May 20, 2008 at 2:11 pm
I’m so sorry that I never got to see you again at San diego. I only knew you for a short time but you showed me to step back and see the big picture.
10 Dan Fogel // May 20, 2008 at 3:07 pm
Rory was one of the best men and friends in the comics biz. We went back 30 years, and served in the trenches together at Best of Two Worlds. He was always supportive with time and advice when I began publishing, and was a major advisor to Fogel’s Underground Comix Price Guide. You will live on, my good friend, in the lives you’ve touched and the industry you loved….
11 sdstone // May 20, 2008 at 3:17 pm
This is indeed sad news. I’ve travelled all over the U.S. and gone to a comic shop in every place and the one that I always come back to is Comic Relief. It’s my #1 favorite shop ever and Rory was a part of that. He was friendly and actually remembered my name and was helpful. He will be sadly missed and was a strong force for a great thing.
12 Jason C. Brand // May 20, 2008 at 3:30 pm
I barely knew Rory, but he always seemed like a good guy when I’d talk to him.
Worst. News. Ever…
13 Adam Strom // May 20, 2008 at 3:57 pm
I worked for Rory back in the early days of Comic Relief, back in the ’90’s. I thought he was a good person and was always impressed with his knowledge.
This is a very sad day for all who knew him.
14 Miguel Perez // May 20, 2008 at 4:05 pm
I am very sad for his passing and my condolences go to his family and close friends. Comic Relief really is the first comic shop that has made me feel at home, welcomed, and a part of a large comic loving community. Although I never actually talked to you Rory, I have seen you several times in the store and I could tell right away that you were someone who truly cared about his customers and the experience they shared in your store. You will be missed.
15 Mike Friedrich // May 20, 2008 at 4:29 pm
Rory and I went back to before Comic Relief, when he worked at a now-defunct comics store in Berkeley. Comic Relief was his effort to “get it right”, which of course he did.
I feel like a huge piece of my life has been suddenly ripped away. His health was never the greatest, but this is still a huge shock.
Fortunately, like his comrade Bill Liebowitz before him in Los Angeles, his store will be his legacy. Every time I’ll walk by on my way to work or come in to browse, I’ll remember him.
16 Jeff Green // May 20, 2008 at 4:37 pm
I’ve been a Berkeley resident for 29 years, and though my comics buying has fallen off in recent years, for so much of that time Comic Relief was a *huge* part of my life, and Rory himself was always so friendly and generous with his time and recommendations., and made it my favorite store, by far, to buy my comics at.
Very, very sad news. Seeing all the tributes to him make me realize that he was as important to the comics community as I always sensed he must have been.
Rest in peace, Rory, and my condolences and best wishes to all his friends, co-workers, and family.
17 Missing Link Bicycle Cooperative // May 20, 2008 at 4:38 pm
Our sincere condolences to Rory’s friends & family.
Missing Link staff & members
18 Mel Smith/Clark Castillo // May 20, 2008 at 4:42 pm
I met Rory when I was a wee fanboy back in the 80’s. Rory always had a positive word to say, a helping hand to give, and he was always smiling when we chatted about the good, bad, and ugly of the field…………….Another blow to our already fragile industry of wisdom of comics. You will be missed my friend but never forgotten. I look forward to the time we chat again.
19 Kevin Beyer // May 20, 2008 at 4:44 pm
While visiting Berkeley on business in 1997 I discovered the most amazing comic store I’d ever visited, Comic Relief. I discovered a new, indy comic that let to a lasting friendship with the creator. If Rory hadn’t given this small press book a chance, my life would not be rich with the friendships I have made upon finding it.
A few years later I volunteered to help Comic Relief set up at San Diego. Rory always had the time to give a kind word and just be an amazingly generous individual. I met up with him every year since just to say hello. It was one of the things to which I looked forward each year at ComiCon.
I am fortunate to have known a great man. I will miss you always, Rory.
20 Scott Morse // May 20, 2008 at 5:02 pm
Even before I knew him or had visited the legendary COMIC RELIEF, I had heard that this guy Rory Root was pushing my books. Sure, it was his job, as he owned a comic shop, but he was the first retailer I knew of, early on, that was actively aware of my work and vocal to his customers about it. When I finally met Rory I understood his passion for comics and plain storytelling. And I understood that this industry, and this artform, is really about people, good people, and the family that we all are because of this shared interest. Rory made it easier for a shy new comics guy to feel at home, and it’s going to be hard not seeing him pull the strings at conventions or offer advice and encouragement at the shop. I wish every retailer, fan, and creator could have a fraction of the passion Rory had for comics. It’d make things so much more fun.
21 Beth Holley // May 20, 2008 at 5:11 pm
I made Rory’s acquaintance far too many years ago to count. He was one of the people I clicked with through the years of working the San Diego Comic Con. There were nights spent hanging out together in the bars of various hotels in the early days, then later the sharing of giant slice pizza during set up.
I have always looked forward to hanging around his booth to see the new delights he would bring to share with attendees. His enthusiasm for the genre was infectious. His willingness to stock publications not seen at the other booths in order to spread the word, so to speak, was greatly appreciated and welcome.
I am going to miss you greatly, my friend. I already do.
22 Vince Lipinski // May 20, 2008 at 6:06 pm
I’m only a few years older than Rory, but the same in spirit. I thoroughly enjoyed talking “Kirby” with him during these past decades. I especially enjoyed chatting with him recently at Moscone’s WonderCon. He will be sorely missed and is irreplaceble. My three sons thought he was a real character! God Bless you Rory… see you later…
23 Larry Brown // May 20, 2008 at 6:35 pm
Rory was my friend. I can only hope I was the same in return. I want to say more but I can not properly express my grief in words. All I can say is he was my friend and I will miss him.
I wish Todd and the rest of the Comic Relief staff the best during this time of mourning.
24 Norman Pabros // May 20, 2008 at 6:37 pm
I’m a sporadic customer at Comic Relief but whenever I visited, Rory was a welcoming person. He took time to say hello, chat a bit and whenever I needed them, recommend good reads to me. Not once did he fail. Him and his great store have introduced me to a whole lot of books and countless genres that instill and perpetuate the love of the medium. Publishers, writers, artists as well as patrons love him and hold him in high esteem. It wouldn’t be so if it weren’t for the way he is. Honest, helpful, insightful, his willingness and determination to help bring the artform to new heights and bring the books to the masses so that others can see that the culture isn’t just for kids, but for all ages and types of people. I’m sure there are countless things to say about this man. I’ll leave room for the others… But I’ll miss saying hello to you and talking shop… Hopefully, there are comic shops in heaven and we’ll cross paths once again. God Bless you. Rest in peace Rory.
25 Adele Moss // May 20, 2008 at 8:51 pm
Rory was a huge inspiration to me. He created so many opportunities for my comics and taught me to have confidence in them. He gave me endless good advice and was always supportive. He was so passionate and eager to help. Without saying it, he made me feel like my comics were important, like they were the future.
Thank you for everything. I will miss you very much and will forever associate you with the art form we loved so much.
26 Lela McKenna // May 20, 2008 at 10:31 pm
Rory and I met in the very early 80’s and dated for a short time. He was the sweetest of guys, and he shared a lot of personal occurances that happened with his family, and former girl friend. I have since married, had two kids, and my entire family has met Rory, and see what a wonderful Comic Wizard he was. God, I can’t believe he’s gone away, it’s just too hard to believe. I always made a point of saying “Hi” to him at conventions, and now, I won’t have that chance again. Not fair, but I know he’s running that giant Comic Book Store in the sky. Godspeed Rory, you will be missed, and most certainly, never, ever replaced.
27 John Harter // May 20, 2008 at 10:53 pm
I just wish I had one more chance to thank Rory for all of the advice and friendship he has given me over the years. I know that my store would not exist if Comic Relief was not there to be one of the stores that inspired it. I hope you and Bill are running a hell of a comic store in the afterlife.
28 Frederic Portal // May 20, 2008 at 11:07 pm
I am very sad for his passing and my condolences and priers go to his family and close friends.
When I move to California from the Old Europe I had the chance to land in Berkeley. I meet Rory at Comic Relief, the only comic shop that has made me feel at home, with its large collection of Comic books. Thanks Rory for the time we spent together in the plane from Comic Con or in your store sharing comics. Thanks to introduce me to comics such as Bone from Jeff Smith, the talented Scot Morse and may others… Without you I will still think that comics in the US equal Super Heroes :).
I will be missed a lot.
My wife, Sophie, and I send you our love as well as your family.
Frederic
29 JIMMY DECKER HIPPY COMIX MIDWEST // May 20, 2008 at 11:13 pm
MY GOOD BROTHER DAN FOGEL AN I WILL MISS YOU MY BROTHER
30 Daria Troxell // May 21, 2008 at 12:31 am
Rory, thanks for turning our son onto “Bone.” He loves the series, and has us read them to him over and over. We told him of your passing and he was very sad. You will most definitely be missed but we will remember you every time we seen you in Barrelhaven.
With love,
The Troxells
Santa Cruz, CA
31 Greg Stafford // May 21, 2008 at 1:34 am
Rory’s been my friend since he was 17. From before his business! I will miss him. The world is poorer today.
If there is Justice in the world there will be a “Rory Root Meet & Greet” where everyone gets together and pretends Rory just introduced us to each other.
Adios mi amigo. Le veré pronto bastante. Blessed Be.
32 Bonnie Rippberger // May 21, 2008 at 1:42 am
Rory had vison, and passion to spare. The result is the best comic book store I’ve ever been in or even heard of. Comic Relief is the embodiment of everything Rory loved and believed in, and I hope it will continue to be a testament to his dedication and enthusiasm for as long as the written word (inside the speech balloon) is printed on the page. I send my condolences to his friends and family, and my love to Todd, Sean, Uel and Jim.
33 Jon "Bean" Hastings // May 21, 2008 at 3:37 am
I wouldn’t be who I am today without Rory.
It was Rory’s shop and its giant and diverse selection that fed my four-color habit.
It was Rory’s support of indy titles that helped me decide to take the plunge and self-publish my first comic.
It was Rory recommending that book to a first-time visitor to Comic Relief that gave me my “number one fan,” who, subsequently, became a great friend.
It was Rory who let me do signings at the store that were always fun (and always ended with him generously buying more books… for which I, of course, always took trade).
It was Rory who I could always count on to be a friendly face at conventions both big and small. Always there with a smile and a glad word.
It was Rory who was my friend.
I’m going to miss him.
34 Chris Pitzer // May 21, 2008 at 11:06 am
I’ll always treasure our talks Rory. You are and will be missed.
35 Attaboy // May 21, 2008 at 11:53 am
Rory was kind, understated, and smart. He promoted the underdog publishers. the zinesters, the ideas, the gay comics, weird comics, and the Not Comics at All had homes at Comic Relief, and not hidden away in the back but front and center.
His immense knowledge was not a self important one, as he often took time to discuss comics to untrained aunts and uncles who happened to wander in.
As Indy publishers, there’s nothing like seeing your publication on the shelf at Comic Relief.
Rory was the first retailer ever to ask for more copies of Gush, a weird self published poetry thing i made, and when my girlfriend Annie and I started Hi-Fructose, Rory’s advice was beyond encouraging. Seeing the first issue on the shelves at CR made it all worth it, made it all “real” somehow.
I’ll miss my long talks with you Rory.
This is a huge loss for so many people.
goodbye my friend.
36 pussyEater // May 21, 2008 at 12:05 pm
I loved chatting with Rory every week almost as much as I love eating pussy!
I’ll miss ya big guy!
37 Anthony Leano // May 21, 2008 at 12:44 pm
Sorry to hear of this news. I would frequent Comic Relief as often as I could since I was a teenager in the early 90’s. This was not an easy task since I lived in Vacaville, home of the Game Warden Comics(closed after 25 years, 1980-2005). I worked at the Game Warden as a kid until I became a co-owner at age 17. During that time my mentor William “Bonzo” Glass, original founder of the Game Warden, first introduced me to Rory and Comic Relief. Everytime I would make a trip to the bay area I would stop by the store. I would strive to make the Game Warden a touch of the magic that was Comic Relief. If I wanted to know what was new and hot in the alternative comics world, I would check out Rory’s place. Whenever I would meet someone who was thinking of opening a comic store I would recommend them checking out Comic Relief to see what a real comic store was about. It was always full of such wonders. Rory was the knowledge of comics. He always had an answer for your comicbook needs. He gave the store a touch of home, you felt relaxed to mingle with the employees and patrons. From his coffee mug to his pampered kitty, it felt like home. Rory will be missed everytime I drive by Comic Relief and don’t see him sitting out front enjoying his cup o’ joe and a smoke. Rory will be missed everytime we attend Wonder-Con, the Alternative Press Expo and San Diego Comic-Con International and he is not there. Rory will be missed for his grinning smile.
38 Jaime Starling // May 21, 2008 at 1:53 pm
I already missed Rory when I moved out of the area, and I hate knowing I won’t see him again. I first met him when I was an intern at Viz, where he’d drive across the Bay Bridge to pick up stock. I thought that was some dedication and started crossing the bridge myself to shop at Comic Relief. Once there we’d talk TV, the UK, manga (of course!) and how great it was that librarians were starting to stock graphic novels. Later when I lived in Berkeley (okay, Albany!) I’d see him on the street and we’d talk on the spot. And, of course, at tradeshows he’d introduce me to EVERYBODY.
Thanks Rory, and keep up the good work wherever you’ve gone.
39 Amanda Fisher // May 21, 2008 at 1:57 pm
I love you, Rory, and I’ll miss you. It breaks my heart that we lost you.
40 Joe Field // May 21, 2008 at 4:50 pm
Rory’s passing has hit me hard—even though his health problems were always a ticking bomb, I never expected it to go off.
He had an insatiable desire for good conversation, good books, good food and good deals. Rory was a good man.
I’ve been sharing stories and photos on my blog at flyingcolorscomics.com.
I offer my deepest sympathies to his family and to the Comic Relief family…while also offering my profound thanks for being able to call Rory my friend.
41 Manuel // May 21, 2008 at 5:35 pm
After reading about Rory on Hi-Fructose.com it is clear that the world has lost a great man!
Wishing his family and friends the best…
42 Eric Jones // May 21, 2008 at 5:48 pm
I’ve already posted this elsewhere, but I thought it made sense to put it here:
I worked for Rory off-and-on for 14 years, starting as an 18-year-old kid. I can honestly say that much of my life would have turned out very different, had I not crossed paths with him back then. It was at Comic Relief that I learned the ins and outs of the comics business, and Rory certainly had a hand in my education. Hell, it was Rory who first paid me to draw something, come to think of it.
As Jim points out above, he could drive the staff nuts sometimes — and lord knows he and I had it out once or twice — but so much of that tension came, at its heart, from Rory’s desire to make the store the best it could be. By all accounts, he succeeded brilliantly in that regard.
I finally stopped working my ‘day job’ at Comic Relief a few years back, going full-time into drawing comics, but the store will always feel like home. I spent the evening there tonight, as a gesture of respect, I suppose.
No one there was shocked at what had happened — we all knew it was coming — but the mood was a decidedly muted version of the the usually-jovial atmosphere of the store.
Rory’s influence in comics will be felt for many years to come, and I know Comic Relief will continue to be what Rory built there — a great comic book store, rarely rivaled and never equaled.
43 Anonymous // May 21, 2008 at 6:14 pm
you only meet a guy like rory root once in a lifetime. what a gem of a guy, what a character. i’m not a very sentimental person but the whole damn thing makes me weepy
44 David A Díaz // May 21, 2008 at 7:18 pm
I met Rory in ‘86 when I worked at a long-gone comic shop called “Best of Two Worlds” in Berkeley, where—along with a core group of co-workers who became friends—the seed for what was to become “Comic Relief” was planted. I was honored to be asked to join the staff at Comic Relief soon after it opened in the late 80’s…and honored to count Rory as a friend.
A sweet bear of a guy, so fair and compassionate. I was the sole gay person on staff, and Rory always made me feel completely at ease and supported…and he turned me on to many gay writers and artists. I learned a lot from him.
What Lawrence Ferlinghetti was to paperback books and Beat literature, Rory was to the world of comics.
I’m simply heartbroken to hear of his passing…I hadn’t seen him since the big Comic Relief 20-Year anniversary last year, when staff members, customers, artists, and friends from the past 20 years celebrated the wonderful community Rory helped nurture. I wish I’d had the chance to see him again. He will be sorely missed.
45 Randy Smith // May 21, 2008 at 7:50 pm
When I got the news that Rory I died I felt heartsick. I was in the shop just yesterday and had no idea.
I spent many happy moments (hours, actually) standing in front of the shop talking with Rory about comics. He was one of my very favorite people in the comics world, and I will always treasure the time I spent with him. It was not only his knowledge of comics, but his compassionate nature, his sense of fun, and his conviction, even if not stated in so many words, that the worlds of comics publishing and retailing should have sense of justice.
I am sad. I am grieving. I will miss him greatly.
–Rev. Randy Smith
46 Michael Patchen // May 22, 2008 at 1:16 am
I met Rory sometime in the eighties. He was *ahem* leaving Best of Two Worlds just as I was coming in. He didn’t know me well enough to warn me then, but we got to know each other well enough after that to team up and open Comic Relief together in 1987. I was proud to be a co-owner and Rory’s partner for many years in the late eighties and early nineties. Together we grew Comic Relief into the best comic store in the country.
Much has been said here about Rory’s ability to match people up to a comic they want to read, but I think the real genius Rory had in business was his ability to attract and keep exceptional people to work for him. Comic Relief has, for over 20 years, had a staff that has been phenomenal, and even though I left the comic industry in 1994, I still count many of the ex and current employees among my closest friends.
Lord knows I did not always get along with Rory. He could be stubborn and I don’t believe he ever made it anywhere without being late. (I find it ironic that I went from being Rory’s partner to working in a job where time and lateness are actually measured in seconds). Though we disagreed on business terms, Rory never wanted that to get in the way of our personal relationship. He was very warm hearted and always wanted to remain friends.
After I got out of the business it was easier for me to be friendly with Rory and I did enjoy his company when I saw him at the store or at mutual friend’s parties.
I feel terrible about his passing. He had been in ill health for as long as I have known him, and I think the thing that bothered me the most about him was his refusal to take care of himself. Now that he is gone I feel awful that I didn’t see him more and let him live his own life.
I don’t know what else to write. I will miss Rory a lot. Rest in Peace my friend.
47 Michael Martak // May 22, 2008 at 1:45 am
I am in complete shock.
I had been a faithful customer of Comic Relief since I moved to the Bay Area in 1996, until 2003 when I moved to New York. At the beginning of this month, I moved back to the Bay Area and reintroduced myself to Rory, who still remembered me very well. I had no idea it would be the last and only time I would see him again.
Rory is perhaps the nicest guy I’ve ever met. He took the time to get to know his customers, and loved sharing his enthusiasm, without ever being pushy. His policy was that if you didn’t like something, you could always return it.
Rory, you are greatly missed.
48 James Friel // May 22, 2008 at 3:44 am
Two days later, I’m still stunned.
I keep thinking of more things that won’t ever happen again, like Rory calling at 11 at night to ask my wife for veterinary advice, or to tell me about a new recipe he’d just invented, or to tell me he’d just remembered something he hadn’t been able to bring up from that prodigious memory the last time we’d been talking.
I knew Rory as an employer fairly late in our relationship. Before that, I knew him as a customer of a couple of distribution firms I worked for (Bud Plant and Capital City), and even as sort of a competitor–he was working for Bob Beerbohm, a Capital City subdistributor (though not in any distribution related job) for a while when I was with Bud. I saw a lot of his faces. And they were all pretty much the same; he was the same outgoing, friendly, generous, sweet-spirited guy all the time–and to everyone, as far as I could ever tell.
Aside from his traits as an employer, he could be demanding just as a friend. But he gave freely and happily as a friend too, and if he strayed over the line at times, which he did, I think it was because he would have felt comfortable being asked for whatever he was asking of others if the circumstances had warranted it.
If he trusted you as an employee or a business associate, the trust seems to have been, as far as I could see, total. When someone he knew ripped him off in some way, he was, I think, less angry than he was hurt–a remarkable innocence in a man so experienced at what is at times a cutthroat business.
Often, I think our disagreements were because his mouth was running several sentences behind his brain, and I just didn’t get what he meant. I’m not used to thinking that people I deal with are smarter than I am, but I have to say that Rory was.
I’ve been angry at him more times than I can count. Sometimes I was even right. More often, I suspect he was. I don’t care.
He was larger than life, in every way that sentence can be read. If he had excesses as a friend and employer, they were almost always in the interest of making the store a better place. I believe he had a Platonic Comic Bookstore in his mind, and whatever he did was in the service of bringing it into existence.
49 Dominic Postiglione // May 22, 2008 at 10:31 am
We’ve lost a dear friend and an outstanding advocate. As always, the good die young. I intend the celebrate the legacy of a man with whom I passionately agreed with, often argued with, but ultimately, always respected. I’m richer for my knowing you and you’ll always have my thanks. God bless old friend.
50 Alan Bostick // May 22, 2008 at 12:55 pm
I’ve just posted an obit on my own blog: (http://www.spicejar.org/asiplease/archives/000686.html). Rory was a good friend for twenty years, and I am going to miss him.
51 Patty Jeres // May 22, 2008 at 4:09 pm
For those who read it, forgive me for repeating what I wrote on the CBIA forum. It’s the best I can do to express what’s in my heart.
Rory Root was such an open-minded retailer and generous man that he carried my own mini-comics in 1980, one of about three or four stores to do so. From the high-browed classic to the most absurdly experimental, he loved comics. And they loved him back.
Oh, how lucky were we to have had him as a colleague, how graced to have known him as a friend.
I’ll miss the gigantic hugs and so much more.
Patty
xxx
BTW, there is a tribute at http://www.prismcomics.com, lauding Rory’s commitment to diversity and the help he gave to us in sharing his ideas on getting more LGBT comics and customers into stores. Yeah, typical Rory.
52 Damon Gregory // May 22, 2008 at 5:15 pm
Working for Rory at times was trying. But to this day I don’t know that I know of anyone else who always had a smile and a handshake waiting for me. I do call him friend and he will be missed.
53 Joel Benjamine // May 22, 2008 at 7:19 pm
Rory was a part of my life as a comic fan from my trips to BoTW with my friends nearly 25 years ago as a teenager , my life as a young working stiff at a job that holds memories both good and bad, and my life as a father, as I have brought my son Milo into the store on several occasions, starting the cycle over again. Rory always beamed when I came in with the ‘lil guy, and I always figured that some day he’d be handing my son stacks of comics that he was sure Milo would like just like he did with so many other people over the years, myself included.
It was never the easiest job to work for Rory, but I count myself extremely lucky to be part of the Comic Relief family and will miss him terribly.
54 Fredo // May 23, 2008 at 4:18 am
I still can’t believe that the last time I saw Rory is the last time I’ll ever see him. Rory was just one of those constants I came to take for granted. There was always a broad summer teeth smile and a kind word. He was a great guy, with a big heart full of love for his patrons, artists, friends and The Art. This is a bigger loss than I can put into words.
Rory, you are the man. I hope to see you in the Next Life. We’ll drink Johnny Walker and talk about whatever you want however long you want. I’ll have to get in line, but thats cool.
All the best, my friend
Fredo
55 Bryan Uhlenbrock // May 23, 2008 at 12:58 pm
It’s been touching to read all the tributes to Rory that have been posted here and elsewhere on the web. The adjective “legendary” has been used more than a few times, and it’s hard for me to think in those terms — he’s been such a familiar presence in my life for so long. I’ve walked with a legend? How can that be? Omnipresent, certainly — you couldn’t walk into a convention, a trade show or a retailer meeting without seeing him and having the benefit of his kind counsel. Omniscient, very nearly — at least when it came to our specialized field, there was very little Rory didn’t know. But legendary? He was all too real, all too accessible to become the stuff of legend, wasn’t he? They say familiarity breeds contempt…but it seems that Rory was the exception to that rule. Everybody knew Rory, from the publisher of the largest comics sompany to the youngest potential fan clutching a handful of giveaway books on Free Comic Book Day. Even those who competed with him directly had a deep respect and genuine fondness for this giant of a man. I hope he knew while he was still here how sincerely admired he was by so many. The man is gone but the legend lives on.
56 chris starfire // May 23, 2008 at 1:15 pm
bright blessings, rory.
i don’t remember when or how we met — it seems like you were always there, one of the people i cherished in the bay area whether i could get to see them or not.
it’s been far too many years now since i have been to berkeley, and even longer since passover at kathleen’s, but i still remember you and your warm hugs and huge heart very clearly, and still think of comic relief as the ideal store.
my deepest condolences to all rory’s loved ones.
chris starfire
57 Glenn Ingersoll // May 23, 2008 at 3:11 pm
Berkeley, Beautiful Berkeley, lost a sequin from her dress.
You were the best, Rory!
58 Colin // May 23, 2008 at 4:24 pm
Even though I think Berkeley is an ugly dirty city I still made the trip to ‘Dirty Berkeley’ just to chat with Rory and pick up a box of comics,now I think I’ll just buy on-line.
Good-Bye Rory,I’ll miss you!
So long Berkeley,you smelly thing you!
59 Les // May 23, 2008 at 4:30 pm
With all the lousy and mean-spirted comic shop staff out there Rory was a breath of fresh air.I recall returning from San Diego in 1999 and having the rudest person “help” me at a dingy comic shop on El Cajon Blvd (SD COMIX) on the monday after COMIC-CON,I told Rory about this sad little man named Greg & how he seemed to only love money & not the art form,Rory just smiled and said,”Well,we’ll always be here.” and I guess as long as Comic Relief stays open,so will Rory’s spirt.
60 Dustin Hall // May 23, 2008 at 5:49 pm
I only even talked to Rory on Free Comic Book day, where I was in a long line behind moms, kids, and new readers. Just as Shawn wrote, Rory was intensely sweet toward each person, helping them choose their new favorite books. I feel very sad. He’ll be missed.
My reintroduction to comics wouldn’t have been possible without Comic Relief. So many peers esteemed the shop. I have held out on buying online out of sheer respect for the shop, Rory, and the staff.
61 Diana Schutz // May 23, 2008 at 11:06 pm
Oh, Rory…
I’ve been crying since Tuesday morning, when I got the news. Still can’t really write anything, I’m too broken apart.
Tried listening to the podcast Dylan posted on the Memories page, just to be able to hear Rory’s voice again — and got to the part where he remembered I gave him my Cerebus #3 before leaving Berkeley. Couldn’t listen to any more after that.
Rory adopted me when I moved to the U.S., 27 years ago, and he stayed my friend, through time and distance. I was blessed.
Thank you, whoever posted that black-and-white photo on the Home page. That’s the Rory I first met and will always remember.
xo
Diana Schutz
62 Melissa Mytinger // May 24, 2008 at 3:25 am
We are all numbed and saddened, for all old times and for the time we thought we had to come, since we became neighbors. Rory, you were one of a kind, and as essential and provocative and necessary in the book world as anyone. We’re thinking of you, your family and all of your friends.
63 Karen Root // May 24, 2008 at 11:53 am
Diana, that photo and all website work is being graciously done by Jonathan La Mantia. He’s doing a fantastic job!! He just needs to start getting some sleep!!! That photo of Rory is my favorite one of him; taken in 1992 at Thanksgiving time at my old house/yard in Stockton it actually has me and my 3 remaining brothers in it. Hey, I found Rory’s old school stuff and I put an 8th grade photo of him in the window at Comic Relief I have other photos and plan to give them to Jonathan possibly on Sunday, as today is go visit MOM day. My thoughts are also with each and every one of you as we all deal with the loss of Rory. ‘May he rest in peace’ my love to all, Karen
64 Jason // May 24, 2008 at 12:54 pm
I never personally knew Rory but I am a frequent customer to the store. Really only had a couple of encounters with him but he was always really nice and helpful and seemed like a truly genuine person. I wish I had the chance to know him like others. I wish his family and friends the very best.
65 Jimmie Robinson // May 24, 2008 at 3:43 pm
Without doubt Rory was more than just a retailer to me. I knew him personally. At his home, eating off his table, playing poker, watching TV, petting his cat, hanging out with his one-time roommate Greg Espinoza, and marveling at his collection of books in his house that went from floor to ceiling. A true bibliophile if ever there was one. I knew him and the circle around him. He was ever gracious and ever thoughtful.
His health, as Joe Field noted, was a ticking time bomb, but I always assumed it would merely hold him from working at the store - which his days were already cut down. I just thought (despite the health issues) that he’d just keep going. And for him to go so suddenly just crashed me. I didn’t even get to visit him, or say goodbye. That hurt.
So, I raise a glass to you Rory. Whiskey, of course. And as Brian Uhlenbrock noted, your legend will live on.
66 Victor Rose // May 26, 2008 at 1:43 am
Dear Rory,
When I first moved to Berkeley 10 years ago it was a daunting and stressful time in my life (college). Comic Relief, your creation, was a place to meet creatures of like mind and revive an interest in comics that I thought was long dead. I still read comics to this day and I know that were it not for your vision and attention - I would not really be all that invested. I’ve discovered Mike Carey’s Lucifer, Grant Morrison’s New X-Men, and John Jackson Miller’s Knights of the Old Republic at your store. Thank you for all the good and light that your contributions to this world have brought into my life. Cheers!
67 Anonymous // May 26, 2008 at 7:00 pm
I never knew you, and I’ve never been to your store, but you sound like a good man. Rest in Peace.
68 Al // May 26, 2008 at 10:27 pm
Mr Root,
you sound like an awsome dude and I am sorry that I have never dropped into your store for I live many many miles away…R.I.P
69 Pamela Troy // May 28, 2008 at 2:49 pm
I am so sorry to hear about Rory. Back in my Locus-employed, convention-attending, comic-book-collecting days, I used to frequent Comic Relief with my boyfriend, Tim. Talking to Rory and Michael was always an important part of these visits, and a factor in our settling in as new residents of the Bay Area.
Another light has gone out.
70 Jennifer Reeser Schick // May 29, 2008 at 5:16 pm
Thanks, Rory, for giving me my best job when I was in college, even though I couldn’t have named 10 comics when you hired me! Even 10 years later, you still remembered my face when I came into the store! Whenever I had a question I always knew you would have the best answer. You even sent me to another store one time when you didn’t have the exact book that you had recommended to me. Thanks, Rory, for having a kind heart and offering me the life-long gift of loving comic books.
71 Carol & Charles Anderson // May 31, 2008 at 10:33 pm
Rory was one of my younger cousins and it is heart-warming to know how much he was loved and respected. My husband and I recently visited Aunt Nancy, his mother, as well as Ron and Karen while vacationing in California, our home state. We are saddened by the loss of such a wonderful person who touched so many lives in a positive way and will certainly pray for the family. Love and Blessings, Carol and Chuck
72 Andrew S. // Jun 1, 2008 at 11:49 am
Rory’s gone? So soon? Oh damnit. The world needs more people like Rory, not fewer. He was smart, funny, and a friend to all. We should all be more like him. My heart goes out to his family and dearest friends.
73 Jing B. // Jun 4, 2008 at 3:33 am
Oh Rory!
Thank you for that big goofy smile 15 years ago(!) that welcomed me into Comic Relief and at every con & store visit there after. Thank you for supporting all the creative types that came through your door with their first comics and zines to sell or even hiring some of them to work for you. But mostly thank you for loving comics so unabashedly and sharing the good stuff with the rest of us…
74 Seth Ronald // Jun 6, 2008 at 6:36 pm
I was a friend of Rory. Though we didn’t see each other for 40 years I was his friend at Rockridge Elementary. It is so wonderful and it fills my heart to see the community of love that surrounded him. He will leave a large void.
75 Patchen Markell // Jun 6, 2008 at 6:51 pm
I remember Rory from when I was a kid dropping my allowance on comics at Best of Two Worlds, but I didn’t get to know him until later in the eighties, when I started playing in a semi-regular football game at Arlington Park in El Cerrito, in which he also sometimes played. Wise (and a wise-ass), funny, smart, generous. I’m so sorry he’s gone and I wish him peace.
76 Thomas Dotson // Jun 7, 2008 at 4:57 am
I found out about Rory’s passing in the oddest way. I was sitting in my doctors office wearing a Green Lantern T-shirt. My doctor noticed the shirt and complimented me on it. Somehow the discussion drifted into comics and he mentioned that an ex-patient of his who owned comic book store had just passed away. It didn’t take long for me to figure out who he meant.
I was shocked.
Years ago I went to comic relief on a regular basis when I lived in El Cerrito. I’ll always remember Rory as being very friendly and alway willing to chat about comics. While I’m not a close friend or even an acquaintance, I was a loyal customer for years. I’m sorry for his passing and for the loss that his friends and family must feel.
77 Kumari Bakhru // Jun 18, 2008 at 6:19 pm
Rory always made me feel special and always took the time to say hello. I was always convinced he wouldn’t remember me, and he always did. I’ll miss seeing him in Berkeley and at Comic-Con. My thoughts and prayers are with him, his friends and family.
-Kumari
78 Alan Campbell // Jun 19, 2008 at 4:23 pm
I met Rory many, many years ago. He was always the go to guy to get you what ever you needed in comics and graphic novels, from the mainstream to the totally out of the main.
It was a pleasure seeing him every year at WonderCon and at Comic-Con. He always had a kind word, would take the time to talk to you, and wanted you to have a great experience.
Rory, you will be missed.
79 Luis // Jun 23, 2008 at 10:12 pm
A customer at his terrific store, I met Rory long ago but seldom took the time to talk to him beyond salutations and the occasional, whadaya recommend? My loss, I know, I know. My impression of him was as a man at peace with his own imperfect road, a valuable wisdom. I owe him, too. He built Comic Relief and something there has drawn me back after each occasional vow to grow up and give up this comics stuff. It never took: and for that I thank you Rory Root.
80 Kirk // Jun 26, 2008 at 1:59 am
I first met Rory over 30 years ago, through a mutual friend, Ted Shannon, while I was at Cal. I’d lost touch with both of them over the years, but Rory’d made a real impression on me: a very positive one. I’d often wondered what road he followed, so it’s good to know where he went. It’s sad that he was so close, all these years, but I just don’t get up to Berkeley that often from the South Bay. If only I’d wandered into his shop, I know I’d have recognized him. He was unforgettable.
81 Maria Harrell // Jul 9, 2008 at 5:13 pm
Right now I’m at a loss to find the words to express how sadden I am by Rory’s passing. Though I have not seen him in nearly 8 years, he will always been the embodiment of the comic world. He was my boss for a year and not a time goes by when I open a comic or watch the Simpsons that I don’t think about him.
It is truly a loss for all those future kids who stumble into Comic Relief with a glazed look upon their eyes, not knowing where to begin and having Rory aim them in the right direction.
His heart was as big as his appetite and he will truly be missed.
82 James Friel // Jul 15, 2008 at 5:52 pm
Getting ready for San Diego, as we’re doing now, brings back hundreds of memories, and also makes me realize how extremely well organized Rory was in some ways, despite the fact that he sometimes appeared not to be. He had it all in his head.
The most important thing now for everyone associated with him ought to be to keep the store going.
83 Jeff Miner // Aug 4, 2008 at 9:02 pm
I only heard about Rory’s passing a few days ago.
It’s hard to believe - he’s been such a fixture in Berkeley for so long - I can’t even remember when I first met him.
My condolences to family and friend - he will be sorely missed
84 Joe Adams // Sep 1, 2008 at 5:57 am
Poo.
I found out about Rory’s passing during a web surfing expedition to find the old Swanson’s Chicken A La King … don’t asked me how I got the news… it was just click click click click click click … DAMN.
I left the Berkeley area in 2001 and worked in the tower on the corner of the shop’s block. I came buy for many a lunch cruise of the new comics and wonderful toys. Rory and I used to laugh about our health problems, shrug and get on with it. He was always up - or at least I only saw him down a couple of times, and it was always about health issues.
We shared the fat guy with glasses and long hair persona (I had to cut mine for work), and he was always up on the latest news and always pushing local talent with micro-comics and small publishers and obscure titles I only found at Comic Relief.
Again … poo. He was one of the few people I really wanted to see if I got back to the Bay Area and now that won’t happen. It’s my loss … he was a mench.
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